Are You Responsible Enough to Lose Fat?

Seems like an odd question for a personal trainer to ask her clients, but I do.  I have a theory that not every one is willing or able to accept that the sole outcome of their fitness and nutrition program is based on personal responsibility.  There are a few circumstances in which an individual has no control over their weight gain or weight loss, but for the majority of us our results can be expressed by our resolve.

A few things prompted me to write this little article about personal responsibility.  One is a television show that I watched last night.  Other reasons include a few emails I received this past week and a personal friends comments to me.  Each of these situations taught me something rather interesting.  Something I already knew, but didnt quite think about until now.

There is a race to melt fat, tone up, slim down, and feel great about your body before the summer hits.  Have you noticed an increase in diet pill commercials lately?  What about exercise gadget infomercials or  new diet books?  The dreaded warm weather means many of us are about to bare skin that wed rather keep hidden.

In this frenzy to shed the weight I have been receiving a bombardment of emails from folks looking for a magic solution.  They are convinced I know something they do not.  A few emails this past week blew me away.  One of them accused personal trainers of knowing the secret to weight loss, but thought they refused to tell anyone the answer so they wouldnt lose clients.  Another email practically begged me to spill my guts about my training program because the person thought I had a super-duper program that only personal trainers use.

Admittedly I got a bit upset at first.  I mean do people actually think personal trainers know the secret to fat loss, but are unwilling to share it with others?  Nonsense.  We share it with folks all the time.  Its all about eating well and enough and being active out often.  And just for the record my nutrition and exercise routine are the exact same routines I talk about on my site and in my ebook.  I actually follow my own advice!

Two other things worth mentioning happened to me within the past week as well.  I watched a television show about changing your family lifestyle.  The point is to become active and eat healthy so that children grow up healthy.  I loved the idea behind the show and that is why I watched.  About half way through this particular episode I was in shock.

The children, aged 8 and 10, were actually eating better and becoming more active.  They were following the rules the nutritionist had set for them.  They were healthier and happier.  Guess who was unwilling to change?  Mom!  She sat out on her front porch swing, **** a cigarette, and talking to the camera about how this show was supposed to be for and about her children and not her.  Therefore she should be able to eat when and what she wants.

Lastly I had a friend approach me and tell me how lucky I was to be fit.  She went on to talk about how she wishes she could go kayaking and hiking as much as I did.  She talked about how I am so lucky to work in the fitness industry and what a coincidence it was that I enjoyed my job.  She went as far as to say she wishes she could have some of my luck.

Between those few emails, the television show and my friends comments it became abundantly clear that many people lack personal responsibility.  Each scenario boiled down to one basic tenet- only you are responsible for you.  No one can make you lose fat.  Not even me!  I cannot force you to stick to an exercise program.  I cannot demand you kayak more or love your job.  I wish I could, but I cannot.

Only you can make changes in your life.  You are the only person who can create a happy, healthy, vibrant, loving and thriving life.  I can provide the tools and motivation, but you are the master of your destiny.  You are the sole force that determines how successful you will be in your life.  Ask yourself these questions:

Do you love waking up in the morning because you are excited about your day?

Are you truly happy with your body?

Are you thrilled with your personality?

Do you really believe that you are in control of your life?

Do you acknowledge that your thoughts are not enough?  Action is key.

I help many people find a path to joy through living healthy and fit lives.  I can beyond a shadow of a doubt proclaim that once you push aside the excuses, once you really step up to the plate, you will hit a home run.  There will be hard times, but with the proper tools, motivation and goals you can and will overcome them.

Personal responsibility is the main success factor in fat loss.  It is not luck that I find time to hike and kayak.  It is not coincidence that I love my job.  We all have 24 hours in a day.  How we decid to spend that time really determines our lifes outcome.  Watching 4 hours of television each night is not conducive to you if your goal is fat loss.  Its all about personal responsibility and doing what you know is right for you.  So I ask, are you responsible enough to lose fat?